How NOT To Treat Your Little

CGL has to be one of the most difficult and intense

relationships.

Although it may not be as simple as an average relationship, it is definitely worth it! So here are some guidelines to help new Caregivers, so that they don’t have to learn the hard way like my Caregiver did!

The main thing about these rules is just be aware of how emotional your Little can be. Things like cursing, yelling, or insulting your Little can have an enormous impact on them. Most of these rules are straightforward, but I really want to explain the last one below.

10. Do not pressure a Little to do anything - I included this one because even if your Little does not want to do anything, if you pressure your Little enough to do it, they most likely will because they are so set on pleasing their Caregiver. This should absolutely never be taken advantage of. Respect your Little’s boundaries and do not push them into anything they are not comfortable with.